The First Date Mistake Each Birth Month Should Avoid

First dates can be nerve-racking for anyone, no matter what your birth chart says. It helps to feel more prepared by knowing a few things about your love interest’s birth month – for example, what they hate on first dates. Here are the fatal mistakes you could make on a date with every birth month, so you know what to avoid and how to impress them instead. Good luck on your outing, and remember – relax, be yourself, and have fun (and if your date is someone born in August, make sure you give them plenty of compliments)!

April: Don’t Take Their Insults Seriously

As the first birth month, those born in April are bit childish and naive. When those born in April have a crush, they show it like a little kid on the playground – relentless teasing that may come off as bullying instead of affection. But joking around and roasting you is just what this birth month does when they’re into you. In fact, if your April-born date is a little too polite, it means they aren’t feeling comfortable enough to be themselves. They might compete with you and toss out some playful insults on your first date, but then they’ll show you how much they like you with a steamy good-night kiss. 

May: Don’t Be Cheap

Those born in May love luxury, so they aren’t intimidated by a first date at a high-end restaurant or an expensive opera show – in fact, they love it! If you have the means, splurge on your date with someone born in May. Or at least plan an inexpensive outing with fancy details, like a picnic with a gorgeous wicker basket full of homemade or carefully selected baked goods and a decent bottle of wine. After all, they deserve it!

June: Don’t Bore Them

The last thing someone born in June wants to be, whether on a date or anywhere else, is bored. Make sure you bring the entertainment on your first date with someone born in June. Sometimes silence is a sign of comfort, but those born in June love to talk, so don’t let any silence linger for too long. Come prepared with interesting stories or new facts you learned. Talk about the classes you’re taking, an interesting news story you heard, or anything to keep the conversation stimulating and flowing. 

July: Don’t Tease Them

People born in July are highly sensitive, and they want a partner who makes them feel safe and secure. Playful teasing or playing hard to get doesn’t go over well with this birth month. Be sweet and sincere on your first date, and let them know how much you like them. Thoughtful gestures like holding the door for them or helping them put on their coat go a long way with those born in July. 

August: Don’t Forget to Compliment Them

Those with August birthdays adore attention and thrive on compliments, so make sure you lavish your August-born with praise on your first date (and every date thereafter). This birth month loves when you notice little details about them, so go out of your way to compliment their clothes, hair, wit, job, or anything else you can think of. If they feel like you admire them but also bring plenty to the table yourself, you will surely get a second date. 

September: Don’t Neglect Your Hygiene 

September natives are total perfectionists and tend to be clean freaks. Perhaps you could get away with not brushing your teeth or skipping perfume/cologne with another date, but not with this birth month. Pay meticulous attention to your grooming before hitting the town with someone born in September. You and your clothes need to be freshly washed and deliciously fragrant from head to toe if you want to see them again.

October: Don’t Dress Like a Slob

People born in October are guided by Venus, the planet of art, beauty, money, and love. Thanks to Venus’ influence, those born in October appreciate the finer things in life, and they take special care of their appearance. Your October-born date will be turned off if you show up in a wrinkled old T-shirt and a pair of sweatpants. But if you take the time to dress nicely in a coordinated outfit, they will notice and appreciate the effort.

November: Don’t Tell Them Too Much

Some birth months are happy to hear your entire life story on a first date, but it’s crucial to show some restraint with someone born in November. This birth month likes to go deep in conversations, but they also want to savor getting to know you. They may ask you lots of probing questions while keeping fairly silent themselves. Give them just enough to show that you’re being honest and forthcoming, but hold back some intriguing details to reveal later once you know them better. 

December: Don’t Be Afraid to Try Something New

December-born individuals are natural explorers and they love trying new things. Whether it’s a hot new bar or restaurant or a thrilling activity like bungee jumping, this birth month is down for anything on a first date. If you’re making the plans, try something exciting you’ve never done before – even if it’s a flop, you’ll have a laugh over it, and they’ll appreciate that you took a risk (those born in December have a great sense of humor). If they are making the plans, be prepared for something totally unexpected, and go with the flow. 

January: Don’t Be Rude

It’s important to be polite on any first date, but it’s especially necessary with someone born in January. Those born in January are elegant, refined, and traditional. They appreciate a date who dresses well, knows proper etiquette, and is respectful to staff. If you eat with your elbows on the table or demand things from your server without saying please, your January-born date will ask for the check before dessert.

February: Don’t Be Traditional

People born in February are perhaps the most eccentric and rebellious birth month. February natives dislike anything stuffy and traditional, so plan a quirky and unique first date to match their personality. Instead of the usual dinner and a movie, take them to an escape room or a modern art exhibit. If you can capture their mind and spark their interest, you can steal their heart.

March: Don’t Resist Affection

March-born individuals are very sensual and romantic. They tend to move quickly in relationships and can be touchy-feely. Your March-born date may want to hold your hand or sit close to you. Don’t resist their affection in an attempt to play hard to get, or they will feel like you’re rejecting them. However, if you’re truly uncomfortable or they make unwanted advances (a possibility with any birth month), feel free to pull away or leave the situation. But if you like them and they slip their arm through yours as you walk down the street, embrace the gesture to let them know you reciprocate their feelings.