5 Concrete Signs You’re Chasing A Love That’s Not Meant To Be

Love is an adventure. It is exciting, euphoric, filled with passion and dreams. Sometimes it feels like you are soaring through the clouds. Other times you find yourself stumbling around trying to find your footing. As you travel down the road of love, learning the steps to this dance we call relationships can be tricky. It is important to know when you and your partner are gliding across the floor and when you are tangoing with turmoil. Unfortunately, sometimes you have to come to the realization that you may not be with the right person. Recognizing these five signs will help you understand that you may be chasing someone who is never meant to love you soulfully:

You Spend More Time Avoiding Conversations Than Having Them

We have all experienced times in our relationships when there is no need to say a word and you both know what the other is thinking. However, lately you have found yourself saying less and less to your partner. What used to feel comforting now feels like a battle. You no longer feel close and connected when you are silent. Those times that used to feel like home now feel like war.

Dreaming Has Become a Hobby

Everyone daydreams sometimes. But if you have found yourself caught up in your own thoughts more than actually living in the moment then this could be a problem. Instead of reminiscing on a memory you spent more time picturing how it could’ve gone. You no longer live for the spur of the moment with your partner but plan them out in your head.

Your Gut Is Tingling

You know yourself better than anyone else. You know when something just doesn’t feel right. You may get these moments of uncertainty every now and then but if you feel drained by the relationship constantly your gut is telling you something. When something is troubling you about your significant other try to listen to that tiny voice inside of your gut.

You Are Always Asking for Reassurance

When you are with the right person you should feel secure. Lately, you have found yourself asking your partner for reassurance every chance you get. Instead of feeling like you are loved and wanted you have to be told. You no longer feel that you are loved unconditionally you have to ask…

You Can’t See Past the Forest

When you think about the future with your significant other do you see clear as day or foggy? Lately, when you try and discuss the future with your partner you either avoid the subject or fight. If you can’t see your life with this person past the forest you may want to rethink if you both see the same path.