9 everyday missteps that make you look like you never learned your manners
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Don't be rude.
Well, sometimes, that's easier said than done. Everyday behaviors that seem normal to us might come across poorly to others. It's important to check back with yourself every once in a while, to ensure that you're not rubbing people the wrong way.
Business Insider spoke with business communications expert, speaker, and "The Communication Clinic: 99 Proven Cures for the Most Common Business Mistakes" author Barbara Pachter. She shared a handful of etiquette red flags that make you look like you've forgotten — or never learned — your manners.
Here are some common behaviors to avoid, lest you come across as rude:
Tim Regan/Flickr1. You forget to say 'thank you'
Expressing gratitude is a crucial part of leading a fulfilling life. If you're in the habit of failing to thank those who've helped you, it's bound to catch up with you.
"If someone helps you, wishes you well, or gives you a compliment, it's polite to say 'thank you,'" Pachter says. "And it is rude if you don't. You are acknowledging the person's actions or comments. Also, you have to reply 'thank you' or 'thanks' to someone who has emailed you information that you requested. It drives people crazy when they send information to someone and don't hear anything back."
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2. You interrupt people
Even if it's done innocuously, no one likes speaking with someone who talks over them.
"People become annoyed when others interrupt them, as it means the original speaker's opinions, thoughts, or ideas are no longer being heard," Pachter says.
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3. You don't write thank you notes
Thank you notes are important, whether you're following up after receiving a lovely gift or getting through the job interview process.
"Etiquette requires that you write a thank you note if you receive a gift, visit the home of a boss or colleague, are a guest at a meal, or interview for a job," Pachter says.
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